I am very understanding and do not rush or jump onto a first timer/new gentalman.I take my time and usually ask them to try a 2 or more hour date,just so we could get to know each other much better.I also have a great sence of humor to break the ice and ask newbies to leave there stresses of everyday life at the door and greet me with a smile.
If you have never seen a lady before or are a new-bie pls refer to my links section and join a verified dating service so I know you are.I screen all of my dates.Join Preffered411.com,Date-Check.com or RS2k
I belong to all 3 of these services and they are all Very Good as well as discreet for the concerned Business Man I deal with on an everyday basis.
Reason I ask that is because you are giving yourself a good foundation for other providers to give you the oaky to see you in the future,even if you do not like to leave reviews and want to leave a cyber fingerprint as alot of gentleman worry about.
Also is a link below on how to deal w/ a provider for the first time because she and you will want to make magical things happen the first time: